My Goal is For You to Leave Me: The Scaffolding Theory of Mentorship
It might sound strange for a business owner to say, but my ultimate goal is for my clients to leave me. My mission is not to create a long-term dependency; it is to build true, unshakeable independence.
I remember the moment my first business was running so smoothly that it didn't need my constant attention. There was a brief moment of panic—'What do I do now?'—followed by an overwhelming wave of pride. I had built something that could stand on its own. That feeling is the greatest gift I can give.
The Founder's Program is designed with that 'empty nest' moment in mind. Every skill we build, every business system we implement, every piece of confidence we nurture, is aimed at one single purpose: empowering the founder to a point where they can confidently say, 'I've got this.'
My job is to be the scaffolding. I am there to support, to guide, and to hold things steady while the structure is being built. But once the foundation is solid and the walls are strong, the scaffolding is meant to come away, revealing the incredible creation that can now stand on its own, forever. My greatest success is the moment you no longer need me.
This is the core philosophy of our one-on-one mentorship at CaliMinds Launchpad. We provide the tools for neurodiverse entrepreneurs in San Diego to achieve financial independence. As an autism business coach, I am here to guide you, support you, and, ultimately, to watch you succeed on your own. This model of building supported self-employment is a perfect match for the goals of the SDRC Self-Determination Program (SDP), focusing on long-term, sustainable success.